Istanis and Orientation

After considering recent literature reviews of peer-reviewed studies, my understanding that the consensus of the best scientific findings available regarding sexual orientation is that it is a combination of attraction and behavior, and is biologically-based with psychological next-order correspondences, stimuli, and effects, has been reinforced.

This does not mean much regarding a specific biblically-prohibited act (whose definition, I would note, is subject to the formulation of a national court). But regarding the associated rabbinic prohibitions, this may mean that a gay man may be exempt from those which cause him distress due to their conflict with his specific biological and psychological needs.

In this way (and I hope this is not inadvertently offensive to my gay friends – if it is, I will re-evaluate the approach), a gay Jewish man may find himself in a legal situation akin to that of an istanis, the most famous case of which is Rabban Gamliel himself, who exempted himself from rabbinic prohibitions related to mourning due to their conflict with his biological-psychological needs.

I hope to flesh this out with a more thorough treatment of the classical sources regarding both the rabbinic prohibitions relevant to gay men and the legal definition, concept, and status of the istanis, but I just wanted to share some thoughts that have coalesced in the wake of several conversations that ensued from my post about gay rabbis (which itself was only brought about by the divine providence of two things being juxtaposed in my experience last week).

Gay Rabbis

I’m honestly confused by the opposition to gay rabbis.

To my limited knowledge as someone who is not gay, it would seem obvious that being gay – or even being in a gay marriage – does not necessarily mean that one does something that is clearly prohibited by our law (at the present time).

Where is the presumption of good faith? Why don’t we extend it to a gay rabbi?

By the same token, being gay is just one aspect of someone’s sexuality that even while it informs many parts of their life certainly doesn’t define the totality of who they are as a person.

Why reduce a gay rabbi to their sexuality? Do we do that with non-gay rabbis? Why can’t a gay rabbi be viewed in the same light that acknowledges their full being and behavior, as their hetero colleagues?

It just seems like a double-standard that, while it can play to popular interpretations of certain texts, traditions, and laws, ultimately fails to explain why some people should be judged differently than others.

As a (neo 😬)maimonidean, I’m just really unpersuaded by the opposition.

Tradition That Calcifies

There’s something about the whole polemic against liberal values and institutions in the name of “tradition” that unnerves me on a biological level.

In this age of chaos and change, my genetic disposition – optimized as it is for survival and moreover for the flourishing of life – recoils at the instinctive retreat into the familiar patterns of the herd.

That way lies death.

I honor what is customary as the basic modality of civilized life – but it can never be allowed to calcify into an irrational restraint on human progress, let alone a steel track running off an existential cliff.

Arabic in Our National Future

Tally Gotliv wants Arabic speakers to feel unwelcome in our country and in the halls of our government.

Sorry Tally, Arabic is part of our national heritage as Jews and it is part of our national future as Zionists, and the millions of Arabic speakers in this country should speak loud and proud, until and beyond the point when it is restored as a national language and our children learn it together with Hebrew from elementary school onward.

The forces of racism and fascism traffic in fear and intimidation, and they’re desperate to hang on to the power we give them.

It falls on us especially, those committed to our laws and traditions, to ensure that our service and our work do not unintentionally sustain the forces of evil subverting those very laws and traditions.

Don’t Get Boiled Alive

There’s a famous experiment people like to bring up.

The story goes, some researchers decided to test animals’ sensitivity to a harmful environment. So they took some frogs and dumped them into a pot of boiling water. Surprise surprise – the frogs immediately jumped out.

But what the researchers did next is the punchline. Supposedly, they put frogs in a pot of regular water and slowly turned up the temperature. Instead of jumping out, the frogs boiled to death. The takeaway is obvious – animals (and by extension people) will act quickly to save themselves from an immediate threat, but will inure themselves to a threat introduced slowly over time.

Applied to political situations in democratic societies, the analogous message is equally clear: attack freedom too quickly and people will react strongly; steal it slowly over time and people won’t move a muscle.

But is that really the story of the frogs?

As it happens, there’s a crucial piece missing that’s not widely known. (Or at least, not as widely as the rest of the story.)

Those frogs that remained in the slowly heated water and boiled to death?

They were lobotomized first.

It turns out, no – animals (and by extension people) will not simply remain in an increasingly hostile and threatening situation until they expire (or are expired).

They will jump, they will flee, they will seek shelter and safety, and they will do everything they can to live.

Whether they’re dumped into a dangerous situation or whether it slowly creeps up around them.

Unless they’re lobotomized.

Lobotomies can be physical. Like the researchers did with the frogs, actual portions of the brain can be removed, leaving the organism non-responsive to its impending doom.

Those don’t happen often in democratic societies.

But lobotomies can also be psychological. The result of social pressures and cultural dynamics. The product of mass media technology and mass education curricula. The outcome of a misguided confrontation with ambiguity and difference for generations trapped in a web of myths, slogans, and soundbytes.

Until people no longer read books, they scroll screens.

They no longer have discussions, they watch reels.

They no longer ask questions, they follow crowds.

They no longer think, they just absorb and repeat.

Those kinds of lobotomies are much more insidious, and much harder to detect – you can hear it in someone’s words but you can’t spot it on a brain scan.

Those kinds of lobotomies happen often, even in democratic societies.

And when a person has been thus lobotomized, what they’ve lost isn’t a particular cortex but the faculty to critically observe and analyze and strategize. They’ve lost the ability to trust what they’re seeing, to analyze it against the rules of reason and experience, to plan to effectively escape it if need be.

They’ve lost their survival instincts as a rational animal, and they will remain in the pot while the water is slowly heated, and they will boil to death.

Less than a century after Mein Kampf, one of the world’s most popular AI’s created by one of the world’s richest (and most popular) men is going full MechaHitler and blaming the Jews for everything.

Less than a century after Kristallnacht, Jewish people and synagogues are being regularly attacked for collective crimes uniquely imputed to them as Jews.

Less than a century after Auschwitz, an authoritarian government is once again spending tens of billions of dollars building concentration camps.

The temperature of the water is rising, my friends.

Don’t get boiled alive.

ICE Budget

ICE budget is now over
$145 billion

On par with the Russian defense budget (at war) of
$145.9 billion

Almost as big as the entire US defense budget of
$150 billion

Together with the funding allocated for other federal departments’ programs targeting immigrants, the total US budget for rounding up immigrants and putting them in concentration camps is now
$168 billion

Do you think it has stopped with criminals?
Do you think it will stop with immigrants?
Do you think it can stop, with all the popular and political support?

Your Best Friend Israel Ever Had

Allow me to parse this for you.

POTUS is ambivalent on Iran. His real issue was with Obama. He had been listening to the isolationists in MAGA telling him to stay out of Iran, but then saw the Israeli attack “winning” and wanted some of the attention for himself. “No nukes for Iran!” is an easy slogan to get behind, and POTUS thinks in slogans.

So after publicly dithering for a few days, he unilaterally decided to drop 420,000 pounds of explosives on Iranian nuclear sites and then declare a ceasefire between Iran and Israel, to both sides’ surprise on both counts.

Bibi quickly fell in line with POTUS. Khameini said he would but then fired missiles anyway.

Now POTUS still has his cake after eating it too: He got his part in the “win” and thrilled the Evangelicals AND he can appease the isolationists by disengaging from the war and even criticizing Israel’s continued response to Khameini’s attacks.

This is your America First president.

This is your Best Friend Israel ever had.

This is your Hero.

On the Fordow Strike

Reportedly, the Fordow mountain nuclear enrichment site has been hit with 12 bunker buster bombs, each weighing 15 tons. It may be too early to tell, but by all indications Khameini’s nuclear program has been essentially closed.

That is the good part of the story.

The bad:

– POTUS authorized this action without seeking let alone receiving any kind of Congressional approval, as is required by the US Constitution to preserve the balance of power in the US government (and specifically, to make sure it is really the people’s will to go war). This action is the latest in an unimaginably long line of offenses against the US Constitution committed by POTUS and it does not bode well for the special relationship between the USA and Israel. Israel needs an ally governed by a sane, competent leader who respects the US Constitution as the source document that truly made America great.

– Bibi is showing no signs of ending the war now that the Iranian nuclear program has been closed. Ever since October 7, Bibi has used and abused the public’s trust in the Israeli government’s commitment to our security, to create a seemingly endless wartime scenario – the only scenario in which his fragile coalition of corrupt populists tenuously continues to exist, investigations and elections are continuously postponed for “after the war,” and he himself stays out of jail. Furthermore, while the reasons for action in both Gaza and Iran may be justified – Hamas needs to be neutralized, the ayatollah can not get nukes – we sit in our bomb shelters and bunkers without any guarantees or confidence that the actions themselves are carried out in a strategic, effective, or moral manner.

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War is primitive sht that goes back millions of years in our history as a species. I appreciate the necessity of sometimes needing to kill before being killed, in this primitive world in which we choose to live, but I do not celebrate it.

I pray for peace, for myself, my family, my community, my city, my nation, my region, my species, all sentient beings.

May we all continue evolving towards the stars.

May none of us need to go back into a bomb shelter today.

American Antisemitism: Right and Left

I’m less interested in faulting the American Left as a general movement for the increase in attacks against American Jews than I am in understanding the government’s timeline for targeting Jewish citizens and in the question of whether the groups coalescing around antisemitism will drop their opposition to the government and support such state targeting of Jewish people.

There is a lot packed into this and I find neither the Right’s argument that the Left poses the greatest antisemitic threat to American Jewry nor the Left’s argument that Leftist antisemites are an exception to the rule, very persuasive.