This post is definitely politically incorrect but I’ll be honest…
I have a problem with the 🇵🇸 flag.
For me, it represents a history of exclusionary Pan-Arabism and organized violence against innocent people.
I have seen it used, again and again, as a symbol of the denial of legitimacy to my country. The denial of humanity to my people.
People waving the 🇵🇸 often mean harm to me and my family, and sometimes it’s hard for me to separate between the flag and the waver.
BUT.
I am painfully aware that many people could say much the same thing about the 🇮🇱 flag.
For them, the flag represents a history of exclusion and marginalization, dispossession and disenfranchisement; it is the flag of the organized violence of gangs, militias, and armies, directed towards them and their families, in their homes and communities.
For them, it is a symbol of conquest and invasion, of disruption and dislocation, of erasure.
It is a flag waved by too many people who deny their struggle, their history, their rights, their humanity, their very identity. People who at best are indifferent to violence committed against them, and who, disturbingly often, are the ones committing the violence.
While waving the flag.
What for me is a natural expression of the historic prayer to return home and build a country where we can be free to live as God intended – is for too many people a painful reminder of all that they, their parents, and their grandparents have endured and continue to endure to this day.
What for me is a symbol of fear and trauma, a pervasive and overwhelming denial of who I am and my right to be me – is actually for many people a symbol of connection, family, peoplehood; of defiance against injustice and of the ability to flourish in spite of it.
There are two sides to a flag, two sides to what it means and what it represents. Two sides to Alex Sinclair ‘s (in)famous kippa. Two sides to the story of this country.
It is natural to see one’s own side of things, at first. But it is crucial that we learn to see other sides – and to catch glimpses of ourselves through others’ eyes.
Especially through the eyes of the vulnerable and the violated in a society where we wield real power over the lives of others.
Honestly, I don’t think two states is the right solution to the problems we face… but a flag is not a solution; ultimately, it’s a symbol of the hope that solutions can be found, if we work together to build a better country.
A kippa – which itself symbolizes the life-affirming awe of the Creator of all things big and small, together – is certainly an appropriate garment with which to express that hope.
Putting a 🇵🇸 flag next to a 🇮🇱 flag on a kippa isn’t promoting one solution over another (although I’m aware Alex does have ideas on the subject) – it’s doubling down on that hope.
Doubling down on peace.
In the name and to the glory of the Creator of us all.
Can I get over my complicated feelings about a flag – and get on board with that ethos?
I should hope so.
I don’t know if I’ll wind up getting a kippa like Alex’s; I happen to like my current big black knit kippa… and I certainly am not interested in getting into unprovoked altercations with racist, fascist police officers.
But I gotta say…
I’m sorely tempted.